I have to risk a little self disclosure here, but I think you will benefit from a correction the Lord gave me.
I was walking and praying last night and breathing out a list of burdens and needs (we all have em) and the Lord stopped me.
I distinctly heard Him say, “Don't tell me what the problem is, tell me what you desire to see manifest!”
This shook me up. I realized that our authority in prayer is higher than simply asking for help!
TAKE YOUR PRAYER TO THE NEXT LEVEL
I took each matter I was praying about and realized that I had inadvertantly turned my prayer session into a session to “pour out my complaint.” I immediately reframed my situation from a HEAVEN to Earth perspective. If we are seated with Him in heavenly places we have authority to authorize manifestations and solutions at a level we often miss.
The impression I got was this: “Stop asking for help in general and get clear on what the solution looks like and agree with Heaven for the thing you want to show up.”
Within a day, an 8 week old problem was SOLVED! And even more answers are manifesting throughout the day today.
Try this and tell me what happens to you.