Why is it so hard to come out and say what we really mean?
I notice this most when we ask people to describe their passion. Invariably, people hide their #1 passion somewhere down around #5. We captured this moment while on an Extreme Dream Trip in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. Watch what happens when this dynamic young lady has a moment of life changing clarity!
Awesome! Wish I could be there….Maybe next time.
This is just one reason I love Lance’s teachings!
If she had found her calling in it, I would have expected her to turn toward Lance and say, that’s what I really care about. That would be the normal response. Instead, she burst into tears, an abnormal response unless there has been trauma. It seems more plausible that she just relived a traumatic moment of her life on the stage in front of a bunch of strangers. Are you suggesting (and I’ve heard this) that wherever you don’t heal from trauma is what you are supposed to keep doing in life? Because it sounds like hell.
Hi John, Firstly, you should not expect anyone to act any specific way due to the various way we have learned to express our emotions. There really is no “normal” way to respond. There is expansion and contraction in all of life — the process of growth. The young woman in the film clip is obviously very sensitive and perhaps has learned to cover her pain or push it deep into the recesses of her heart and mind. So the first step in the process, logically, is to have the knowledge — to see the light — the ah ha moment she experienced in front of a crowd — which emotionally choked her — maybe revealing to herself and us that no one was there to hear her speak or that what she said was not important in life — and this sort of spontaneous emotional release can be embarrassing, as well, if she has set up her personality to be a stronger, more bubbling one. The second step is to go to the root and bring it to the surface (which is what Lance is trying to teach us) — the where, when, how and why of it or who we are. The third step is to fix it — by NOT repeating it — by owning it and rising above it and not letting that position or issue be pushed down again and again. You don’t necessarily have to re-live the pain. You face it and you find a way to deal with an issue when facing it and handling it with the tools that teach you how to manage it or overcome it. Sometimes a few simple words back at someone can do this. It’s a process. When you confront, you get rid of, you release it. There is an emotion behind every disease, so this is a good exercise to find yourself — not just your passion, but the blockers that prevented you from becoming what God intended you to be. And in so doing, you also prevent the disease or illness from surfacing (Google emotions and disease or energy medicine). The mind is powerful and can twist and hide, but the heart only knows the truth — it IS God. Love IS God. Someone needs to embrace this courageous, tender hearted woman who obviously takes on the suffering of others, along with her own pain and lack of love and acceptance in her life. I would ‘imagine’ she is a healer in her own right — only she doesn’t know her full capacity yet. Please don’t judge her. Sometimes the emotions we hold are so strong that we cannot speak and the tears just pour out of us instead of the words.
I have never heard that b4, but something to think about. I can tell you (as a female) tears can be of joy also – if I would have been there and finally figured out what I really cared about I probably would have the same reaction. When I lived w/ trauma I shut down and never cried – now that the Lord has taken me thru much healing I cry tears of happiness often b/c I am so thankful to Him. But I do have a heart for kids and hurting people (like I was) and for people to know their purpose which is something I dont find easy to do.
John,
Regarding your answer, please go here. I believe it will bring more clarity to you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0oZIbpdxHK8
Thank you Sherry, Maggie, and Kari!
Awesome!!! Loved it!!! Blessings on my sister as she fulfills her destiny!!! Awesome!!!
The video of this young woman helped me to get more of a picture of my heart’s desire. MY FATHER made this world for ME! IN Him I AM the POWER TO take authority over the evil and crush it under my feet. My passion is to arise and take my place in the government of our Mighty KING and restore HIS justice to this earth.
I dance on the evil and use it as stepping stones to get to the top. As I am arising I lift others up with me! I travel the world to find those whom Father has assigned me to lift up, encourage and heal so they, in turn, are freed and empowered to fulfill their passion and true purpose.
Thank you, I will continue to pursue my passion. Thank you for using yours to help us.
See you again in Manila.
Wow! Wow! Wow! I felt her and immediatly cried thru the video! My husband and I are in the midst of another God ordained shift..we are not at the fullness of our destiney yet and in a way are still struggling with some clarity……..
A Moment of Life Changing Clarity
Why is it so hard to come out and say what we really mean?
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I love it when ppl find their passion; I have been searching for my passion and my talents – still unsure (at 50). I have gone thru many courses but still not convinced which is my true passion/talent.