Never surrender the power to write upon your own mind the narrative of who you are and where you have been. Unresolved guilt places us in bondage to tormenting spirits that accuse and rob us of our dignity and self respect. Honesty (at least with yourself till you have courage to tell someone else) gets you out of enmeshment with the thing you are feeling guilty about. Ever notice how we get defensive over things we don’t like in ourself? “Hug the cactus” and love all of the parts of you, the good and the bad. It will help you embrace the good and get rid of the bad, cause in the end, God made you the one who defines your beliefs and determines your choices – never surrender that to someone else….especially the devil.